little beats blog
Ever notice how all toddlers tend to fight and tantrum when cleaning up a favorite toy, turn taking with a friend or get buckled into a highchair? These all represent a transition for your little one. Toddlers do not learn how to control their impulses and to develop self-control until later in their third year of life.
The part of the brain that children use to stop themselves, the pre-frontal cortex, is just starting to develop at age 2. In any transition, you are asking that your child stop what they are currently doing (and enjoying!), start a whole new activity or routine, and typically the new activity is something that was not their idea!
If you notice that transitions are beginning to become a struggle for you at home with your young toddler, there are many strategies and tools that you can use to make these less stressful for both you and your child.